By Dr. Macie P. Smith
HEALTH The holidays can be a joyful but challenging time when a loved one has Alzheimer’s or dementia. Keeping surroundings familiar, letting your loved one help in ways they can, and connecting through meaningful conversations are all ways to include your loved one in the celebration, says gerontologist and licensed social worker Dr. Macie P. Smith.
“When people are engaged and they feel valuable and they feel worthy, you have a better outcome,” Smith said. “When someone has a condition that impairs their cognitive ability, we have to speak to the heart and the soul — and I don’t think we do that enough.”
For more than 24 years, Smith has been helping family caregivers and their loved ones navigate diagnoses of Alzheimer’s and dementia. In her new book, A Dementia Caregiver Called to Action: The Journey, she covers communication concerns and shares tips for providing care and where to look for local respite services — all of which can come in handy during the holidays.
“As we age — and as we live we are aging — we are going to need help with
some level of support or care,” Smith said. “No one is exempt from providing care or from needing care, so being able to better understand what caregiving entails and how truly it is a blessing to be able to care for someone else … you can never put a dollar amount on it.”
In her book, Smith takes readers through the logical progression of a dementia care experience, beginning with how to recognize potential symptoms before the diagnosis and what questions to ask the individual’s primary care physician. She then describes what to expect after a dementia diagnosis, answers common questions and details a range of care options available to dementia patients.
“Although there’s not a cure for progressive types of dementia, like Alzheimer’s, there is care — your care,” Dr. Smith added. “So, here’s to getting ahead of the journey.” Emmy-winning TV host and bestselling author Leeza Gibbons said, “Macie has a unique way of supporting caregivers through real-world scenarios and practical guidance. I’ve seen her make the challenge much more manageable for many at the end of their ropes. If you need a basic starting position for dementia care, this book is for you.”